Career advice in a fortune cookie

It’s easy for us wizened veterans of the world of work to forget how important it used to be to get a promotion, a bigger-sounding title, a higher-than-average pay raise.  We have the perspective of longer history and seeing many more patterns emerge over the years.  We appreciate different aspects of life more highly than we used to when we were starting out.  In the early years, there was an imperative for making progress.

When I was a few years into my first real jobs, I was working full time, attending a master’s program full time and had my first daughter. I formulated then what I called the Theory of Escape Velocity.  My goal was to accelerate my career advancement to such a degree that I would reach a state of financial independence by the time I was 30 years old.

I’ll wait until you stop laughing.

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The reality below the headlines

Thanh Tinh Chay is a vegan, vegetarian restaurant, specializing of course in the cuisine of Viet Nam. Helen, the proprietor, adopted a Western name upon emigration to the U.S. She and her staff make all of the food from scratch, in their kitchen. The mock meat choices are absolutely delicious. I am especially fond of the Teriyaki chicken, and “Helen’s Noodles”. The vegan desserts are better than the “real” versions they represent. The crème brûlée is addictive.

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Emotions are infectious

Many years ago I worked in the intensive care unit of a psychiatric ward at Mercy Hospital.  Armed lightly with my newly minted bachelor’s degree in psychology, my task was to be a custodian of psychotics, suicidal depressives and bipolar sufferers.  Once in a while we’d also get a patient experiencing drug-induced hallucinations. 

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Diamond teeth

[This guest article from my daughter, Serra Sewitch-Posey, is a call for authenticity, heart and bravery in the midst of our chaotic, uncertain times. May it inspire you as it did me.]

We are all confused and afraid. We are desensitized to horrific things. We go about our days planning dinners, doing our jobs, watching our shows. I feel distant, buffered from the madness unfolding at the White House, the constant “breaking news” email updates. I am buffered by my privilege, for now. My life has not been personally affected. I don’t feel the danger.

I feel strangely hopeful and alive. I like where I’m at in my life. I take walks and fold laundry and bake peanut butter banana muffins.

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